Dating that sees you.
Not just your face.
Personality. Science. Real connections. We asked ourselves what dating would look like if personality came first.
Stop handing out your number
to strangers.
Met someone but still unsure? Share a temporary kindred code instead of your phone number. Valid for one night. No WhatsApp, no Instagram, no risk.
Spectrums, not boxes.
35 questions. 7 dimensions. Based on the Big Five model (Costa & McCrae, 1992), the scientific gold standard in personality research for over 40 years. No label. No type. Your real profile.
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Why kindred is different
7 dimensions.
No boxes.
Other apps put you in 1 of 16 types. We measure 7 dimensions on a spectrum, based on the Big Five model (Costa & McCrae, 1992), the most widely used framework in modern personality research.
Write with context.
Not into the void.
Double-tap on what catches your eye: a prompt, an interest, a soundtrack. Your first message always has real context.
Your code.
Not your number.
Met someone in real life? Share your temporary kindred code instead of your phone number. You decide afterwards whether it becomes more.
What kindred does differently
What we deliberately don't do.
No infinite swipe
We cap likes so every profile gets real attention.
No dark patterns
We don't push you to pay. Premium is optional, never required.
No manipulative push notifications
We don't use loneliness as a marketing strategy.
No hidden matches
Every match is visible. No connection disappears behind a paywall.
What you can count on
„find my kindred isn't a corporate product. It grew from the conviction that dating has to be better, built by someone who was done with surface-level dating himself."
Marc, founder of find my kindred
Find your kindred spirit.
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